
I have a shakespeare eclipse super heavy feeder, this has a stiffish quiver tip but when a decent fish is on, the rod doesn't bend through to the but, so there is a bit of backbone further down the rod which is handy if you want to put a bit of pressure on!
I also have a shimano technium super specialist avon/quiver. The avon tip bends through virtually to the but, and like you mention nasty it doesnt feel fully up to the job when a decent fish is hooked in a swim where you might need to put the pressure on.
It is a nice rod to use but hasnt got as much backbone as shaky!
Have a look at a few heavy feeder rods, take a reel with 10Lb line and set the rod up in the shop.
I think Daiwa and shimano do 'proper' barbel feeder rods for under £60 mate, theres no need to get stung these days!