Christ it's hard work!!! It's amazing what you take for granted, isn't it? I fished a bit as a kid, had a break but re-started again after college. I've been fishing ever since but still learning all the time.
I've taken a family friend out quite a few times recently but I find the whole thing quite stressful! He's older than me and has no real outdoors background. The key is to keep things simple but EVERYTHING he does seems to be 'wrong'! You want to correct him but you can't spend the whole day saying "don't do it like that" etc. From holding the rod, to putting in a bank stick, to positioning the chair. Everything!
I've mostly been on rivers because I prefer them but we've been on ponds too.
He's keen but I'm not sure he "gets it". Do you know what I mean? He knows you won't catch all the time... but he gets down if he doesn't catch all the time... He's bought all the magazines, watched hours of Sky's fishing programmes etc but once he's on the bank he's like a child without a clue.
He's caught some really nice fish too. He's been by himself a lot now but whenever we arrange to go together it's like we're back to square one. I've shown him so much and just when I think he's perfectly capable (which he is) he'll do something completely bizarre. I just can't take anymore of it! He's got to learn things for himself.
Anyone have any experience with this situation?
Sorry for the rant! Needed to get it off my chest.
I've taken a family friend out quite a few times recently but I find the whole thing quite stressful! He's older than me and has no real outdoors background. The key is to keep things simple but EVERYTHING he does seems to be 'wrong'! You want to correct him but you can't spend the whole day saying "don't do it like that" etc. From holding the rod, to putting in a bank stick, to positioning the chair. Everything!
I've mostly been on rivers because I prefer them but we've been on ponds too.
He's keen but I'm not sure he "gets it". Do you know what I mean? He knows you won't catch all the time... but he gets down if he doesn't catch all the time... He's bought all the magazines, watched hours of Sky's fishing programmes etc but once he's on the bank he's like a child without a clue.
He's caught some really nice fish too. He's been by himself a lot now but whenever we arrange to go together it's like we're back to square one. I've shown him so much and just when I think he's perfectly capable (which he is) he'll do something completely bizarre. I just can't take anymore of it! He's got to learn things for himself.
Anyone have any experience with this situation?
Sorry for the rant! Needed to get it off my chest.