Well...
We have a Queen who has sat idly by whilst incompetent Governments after Governments have turned the rat race into a something that's worst than a rat race (words fail me!) in front of a Parliament where certain and many (?) individuals have milked the life out of every last bit of cash for their own personal gain, including the expenses scandal, whilst caning it down to us mere mortals, and not withstanding their attempts to deliberately cover it all up!
So given the right to intervene and the lack of intervention, and speaking as a former royalist myself I say...
.... you Madge and your descendant's wedding!
The royal tush is extremely lazy of late and you clearly don't care about those who keep you by legal demand so what the .... should I care about you?
If I'm lucky there might be a 177th repeat of Only Fools & Horses on a different channel!
(There's a clue in the title of the alternative)
Sorry Madge, but times have overtaken you and we feel let down.
In short and without going into players and wages...
Neither!